having to call someone back
making new friends
peoples first impressions of you
iv been here!!!! yall have been quiet
you’d rather search for something in a store for a long time instead of asking an employee
You know what's a annoying??? When friends, family says "you can't talk to people, you're too shy". Like, I know I'm shy but I still want to try but when everyone is saying you can't... It's annoying.
i don’t think i have ever had anyone say that to me but ya that sounds super annoying!!!!
when people ask you why you don’t talk
when you finally say something and no one hears you
"You need to speak up."
“Why don’t you talk?”
“You need to get out more.”
“You look sad/You should smile more.”
“Just jump in the conversation.”
“Why didn’t you just ask?”
“You should have said something.”
“Why are you so shy?”
“You’re just being lazy.”
“You’re making it into a big deal.”
They all haunt me on a regular basis….