Shy People Problems

Anonymous asked: And you don't really talk to your escorts? (sorry, not trying to be annoying)

My escort was a friends brother so she helped set that up for me. Same with Dana.
-H

Anonymous asked: So who are the guys in your grad picture?

our escorts

Anonymous asked: i'm 16 and i'm very shy and awkward i literally can't start a conversation idk how to do it idk what to say, i think people think i'm boring bc i have nothing to say really

start with hi 

Anonymous asked: Heather and Dana, you girls look awesome in the grad week picture :)

thanks!!

Anonymous asked: To the anon who wants guy friends, my best advice would be to relax, I had no guy friends until junior yr of high school and now some of my best friends are guys. Just relax and if it makes it easier, pretend they are a girl (obv don't start ranting about your period but you get the point). Start by talking to a guy who shares an interest with you, or is friends with one of your friends, that you AREN'T attracted to, then keep going. Guys and girls can just be friends, and pretty great ones :)

Anonymous asked: Okay, to the anon who wants a guy friend. It's really no different than talking to anyone else. I'm a guy so I know this. Talking to other people is still hard sometimes, but it's still essential, unfortunately.

Anonymous asked: to that anon who wants a guy friend. darling, you don't need that. at one point the one of you will fall in love and that makes things ugly. guy-girl friendships are just beautiful lie, the one is always hurting, the one is always loving in a bit stronger way than a friend should.

Anonymous asked: To the girl about guy friends, I also was terrible at talking to guys and had no guy friends until like last year! But honestly you just need to do it, sometimes it might not work but the more you talk to guys the more comfortable it becomes! You could always start by meeting them and talking over facebook and work up to it?? It might not work but its just an idea! I know guys are scary but really they are no different to us!

Anonymous asked: You have guy friends or are dating? How'd you guys get close with guys, because I don't have guy friends and I want to!?! Plus I want to get to know new people!! :/

hahah no no. i haven’t had a friend thats a guy since like grade 2 so.. i have no idea. 

Anonymous asked: Awww, you two are so cute!

Anonymous asked: Please help--My parents want me to get a job, but I am really scared. I don't have my license yet so they would want me to walk or take the bus, but that actually scares me, too.

i feel u. i guess it depends how old you are, but you could tell them that it scares you. 

Anonymous asked: I have to give a speech at graduation because I'm valedictorian, and I'm beyond nervous. I get shaky and freaked out giving presentations in class to 20 kids, how can I stand up there and give a five minute speech to a thousand people!?

Try and speak loud and clearly, don’t speak too fast and try to stand still and not fidget. Find some spots in the back of the room and look at them as if you’re making eye contact with the audience. Practice is always good, practice your speech or presentation before hand, if you can practice in front of a group of friends or family. And most importantly, don’t get to nervous and psych yourself out.