veronikamacabre:

"You need to speak up."
“Why don’t you talk?”
“You need to get out more.”
“You look sad/You should smile more.”
“Just jump in the conversation.”
“Why didn’t you just ask?”
“You should have said something.”
“Why are you so shy?”
“You’re just being lazy.”
“You’re making it into a big deal.”

They all haunt me on a regular basis….